35 Overlooked Behaviors That May Signal Mental Illness (ADULTS)
Many people carry mental health struggles silently because the signs are misunderstood or dismissed. What looks like “attitude,” “quirks,” or even “personality” may actually be symptoms of mental illness.
This guide lists 60 overlooked behaviors in adults and children — alongside the possible mental illnesses connected to them. (Note: These are not diagnoses, but warning signs that something deeper may be going on. Professional evaluation is always recommended.)
Adults
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Overeating / emotional eating – Depression, Anxiety, Binge Eating Disorder
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Undereating / food restriction – Depression, PTSD, Eating Disorders
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Frequent angry outbursts – Bipolar Disorder, Intermittent Explosive Disorder, PTSD, Depression
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Identity confusion (not knowing who you are, changes in sexuality, gender dysphoria) – Borderline Personality Disorder, Gender Dysphoria, Dissociative Disorders, Depression
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Compulsive pregnancy or impregnation (wanting babies with everyone, getting pregnant often, or getting others pregnant often) – Hypersexuality (Bipolar Mania), Borderline Personality Disorder, Trauma Response
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Oversleeping daily – Depression, Bipolar Disorder, Seasonal Affective Disorder
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Insomnia / racing thoughts – Anxiety Disorders, PTSD, Bipolar Disorder
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Constant procrastination – ADHD, Depression, Anxiety
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Social withdrawal / isolation – Depression, Social Anxiety, Schizophrenia, PTSD
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Using humor to mask pain – Depression, Bipolar Disorder
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Shopping or spending sprees – Bipolar Disorder (mania), Impulse Control Disorders
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Alcohol dependence / “social drinking” daily – Alcohol Use Disorder, Depression, Anxiety
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Cigarette addiction – Addiction Disorder, Anxiety, Depression
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Marijuana dependence (loss of motivation, forgetfulness) – Cannabis Use Disorder, Depression
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Drug use for escape – Substance Use Disorder, PTSD, Depression
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Workaholism / overworking – Anxiety, OCD, Depression
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Brain fog, zoning out often – ADHD, Depression, PTSD
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Frequent body pain with no medical cause – Anxiety Disorders, PTSD, Depression
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Panic attacks mistaken for heart problems – Panic Disorder, PTSD
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Extreme perfectionism – OCD, Anxiety Disorders, Eating Disorders
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Loss of interest in hobbies – Depression, Bipolar Disorder
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Sexual impulsivity / risky behaviors – Bipolar Disorder (mania), Borderline Personality Disorder
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Over-apologizing constantly – Anxiety, PTSD, Low Self-Esteem Disorders
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Sudden mood swings – Bipolar Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder
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Compulsive lying – Borderline Personality Disorder, Antisocial Personality Disorder
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Self-harm (cutting, burning, scratching) – Borderline Personality Disorder, Depression, PTSD
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Extreme distrust of others – Paranoid Personality Disorder, PTSD, Schizophrenia
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Dissociation (feeling detached from reality/self) – Dissociative Identity Disorder, PTSD
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Excessive gambling / risky money choices – Impulse Control Disorders, Bipolar Disorder
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Uncontrollable worry about daily life – Generalized Anxiety Disorder
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Hallucinations (seeing/hearing what others don’t) – Schizophrenia, Bipolar Disorder, Psychosis
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Excessive stubbornness or refusing to accept reality – Personality Disorders (Narcissistic, Paranoid), OCD, Trauma/PTSD, Delusional Disorder
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Narcissistic behaviors (constant praise-seeking, lack of empathy, anger at criticism) – Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), Borderline Personality Disorder, Antisocial Personality Disorder
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Gaslighting or manipulating others – NPD, Antisocial Personality Disorder
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Grandiose fantasies (“I’m better than everyone”) – NPD, Bipolar Disorder (mania)